Leave a Map, Not a Maze

Leave a Map,
Not a Maze

Patrick - The Planner (68)

There’s a certain peace of mind that comes with knowing you’ve left a ‘map’ rather than a ‘maze’ for your family.

At 68, Patrick is in the ‘Sweet Spot of Preparedness’, he’s sharp and healthy enough to make complex decisions now so his kids don't have to make them during a crisis.

Maintaining independence
as he gets older.

Patrick wants to make sure he can live at home for as long as possible, so he looks to future proof his home with the installation of a ramp to the front and rear of the house. He also wants to keep fit and healthy so he can live a better life in later years.

Resources & Signposting

Make The Call Service. You can check if you’re getting all the money, supports and services you’re entitled to by contacting the Make the Call team.
Take 5 Steps to Ageing Well. Be in charge of your health and wellbeing as you age.

Making sure everything important is easily accessed.

Patrick has made a will but he wants to plan his ‘Digital Will’. But he’s worried about his kids being locked out of his laptop, phone, or financial accounts because they don't have critical passwords.

Resources & Signposting

Financial and Legal Record Template gives him a template to record all his important information.
All the Ghosts and the Machines Book gives clear information and guidance on how to manage your digital footprint.

Making sure your voice is always heard.

In the situation of a health crisis Patrick wants his clinical team to know what he wants and what he doesn’t want. Importantly, he does want to leave his children ‘second guessing’ what his wishes are.

He wants to ensure that if he can’t speak for himself, his specific wishes (like no intubation or CPR) are legally binding.

Resources & Signposting

Your Life, Your Choices Booklet clear information on how to protect your wishes.
Advanced Directive to Refuse Treatment (ADRT) is the legal tool to record what medical interventions you ‘do not’ want. He will need to consult with his healthcare professional, for example his GP.

Spring cleaning so you can breathe easier.

Patrick feels burdened by the amount of ‘stuff’ he has gathered over the years. Beyond the bank accounts, he’s overwhelmed by the physical items—the attic, the tools, the photos—and doesn't want his kids to spend weeks sorting through ‘junk’.

Resources & Signposting